“ When their bio say ' heavy risk or bad mistake : Getting this app . ' Okay , then get off , LOL . "
Recently Reddit useru/CapableEnd5584asked"People on dating apps: what type of pic/statement is a dealbreaker?"
And the replies were super direct and possibly controversial, so here are the most popular dealbreakers:
1.“When they’re weirdly aggressive in their bio. Like if it says, ‘If you have a problem with that, swipe left.’ I didn’t until you got all weird about it.”
— atomic number 92 / AJPXIV
2.“If every pic is a heavily filtered, super close-up selfie.”
— uranium / tarheel_204
3.“Any mention of royalty (i.e. calling themselves a king, queen, or princess).”
— u / Kchuck _
4.“If your profile is just a list of stuff you don’t like.”
— uracil / Fluxxed0
5.“If there’s no information except a pic and a name. Like what are you doing here if you don’t want to share anything about you that could help to see who you are?”
— uranium / Northremain
6.“When they are all group photos and I can’t tell which one you are.”
— u / Onautopilotsendhelp
7.“When ‘Just ask’ is the only information they provide. To me, that conveys extremely low effort and potentially high entitlement.”
— u / hatsofftolarry22
8.“When their bio just says ‘My Snap/Instagram is…'”
— u / mcmaddie
9.“When their bio says ‘Biggest risk or worst mistake: getting this app.’ Okay then get off, LOL."
— u / AncientView0
10.“Travel-obsessed types were instant left-swipes. Most people like to travel. Making it your entire personality is the most boring, basic person thing.”
— u / nudewithasuitcase
11.“When their bio says ‘Not likely to message first.'”
— u / DMMEPANCAKES
12.“Something small, but my biggest pet peeve is when their bio says ‘Make me laugh.’ Listen, I get humor is important to you, but this can be worded better. ‘Make each other laugh’ or ‘Have a good sense of humor’ instead. ‘Make me laugh’ sounds like I’m here to entertain you.”
— u / Back - to - a - planet
13.“When their profile says ‘Looking for a gym partner.'”
— u / soybomb622
14.“When they write something in their bio about pineapple on pizza.”
— u / ih8memes
15.“I’m not on dating apps anymore, but a big dealbreaker for me was if their pictures were only headshots.”
— u / Diet_Coke
16.“Inappropriate interest in their pets, like when they say something like ‘Proud Mama to my three fur babies.'”
— u / SacTownNewf
17.“When their bio says ‘I like having fun.’ Yeah, no, duh, that’s what fun is.”
— u / Icmedia
18.“Back when I was on apps before I met my wife if I saw, ‘I’m fluent in sarcasm,’ or any derivative of it, it was an instant no from me.”
— atomic number 92 / mokes310
19.“‘Looking for my partner in crime,’ sets unrealistic expectations for a first date."
— u / UdonDugong
20.“When men pose with status symbols like a watch or a fancy car.”
— u / SadlyNotDannyDeVito
21."‘I hate drama,’ is code for ‘I cause a lot of drama.'"
— u / fappyday
22.“If you’re a guy who has a bunch of shirtless pics, it makes me think you’re a jerk who’s going to talk about my body.”
— uranium / CapableEnd5584
23.“When their bio says ‘My real age is X, I don’t know how to change it!'”
— atomic number 92 / No - Commission007
24.“Even though I’m over 6 feet, I swiped no on any profile that stated ‘No men under 6 feet tall.’ Those profiles normally gave bad vibes anyway.”
— u / cjnewbs
25.“Pictures of them smoking weed.”
— u / bootyhunter69420
26.“Pics where the person is giving the middle finger.”
— uranium / megafatceeobaby
27.“Men who post pictures with guns, dead fish, or a bottle of alcohol.”
— u / Onamonae
28.“If the majority of their pics are bathroom or car selfies.”
— u / sourchicken39
29.“When they post all their pictures with literally no writing on their profile. I’m done with them.”
— u / dadspls
30.“When their bio says, ‘I’m in town for the next X days.'”
— u / grave - Ocelot948
31.“When their bio says, ‘If you can’t handle me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best.'”
— u / Tall - Vanilla-3936
32.And lastly, “When men don’t have a single picture with a smile.”
