" My mother - in - police kept track of all the expenses we ' accrued ' in the infirmary for throw our babe . "
Getting pregnant and being able to give birth is one of life’s greatest blessings. However, sometimes, with these exciting moments in life comes unwarranted behavior from some family members, like a mother-in-law.
This Redditorsharedtheir situation in ther/JUSTNOMILsubreddit, and this story sounds like it could be the plot ofMonster-in-Law 2.
The claim of the OP ’s story is , ' milliliter “ Kindly ” buy us gifts and dinners while in Hospital stimulate our baby — Venmo requested the balance from me when we got out . ‘She wrote , " The claim says most of it . MIL keep cut of all the expenses we ' accrued ' in the infirmary for having our child . We thought the repast and supplies were genial gestures because my in - laws are freaking LOADED , and we NEVER asked for anything .
Come to find out , she Venmo request it all to be bear back the day we get home ( and discover that we would have to go back to the PICU for our daughter ’s complications ) . We ’ve since discovered what a narcist is , and she is a full - blown narcissist and hook to spending money for herself . It really hurt us , especially since I was just place off ( since then , I got a new job ) . It was basically like I establish her my cite calling card to pass at her free will and had no estimation . Am I overreacting , or should I still be upset at her ? " asked the OP .
Note : Some of this submission has been redact for length and/or clarity .
Over 100 people chimed in, relating to this story and sharing their advice on what this OP should do.
This commenter validated the OP’s feelings, which we love!
This commenter knows how to set boundaries.
And this commenter knew exactly what to do — we do love a petty Betty moment!
