" Yeah … I had that . They ’re married now and expecting a baby next calendar month . "
Not that you need to google “husband slept with best friend” to know that it happens but, for the record, it is not uncommon…
And a very quick search onanyinternet platform is proof. In fact, according to nationwide responses gathered by theGeneral Social Survey, over21% of men were unfaithfulto their wives, andover 50% of those men admitted they cheated with someone they knew well, like a close friend.
Now, thehusband-best-friend relationshipis going viral on TikTok — and people are not holding back.
It started when somewomen started posting videos of their husbands getting very, erm, cozy(?) with their best friends, saying things like, “I feel sorry for girls who can’t trust their best friends with their husbands!”
The videos featured things like the best friend and the husband embracing each other for long periods, jumping in pools latched on to one another (even after they hit the water), cuddling on the couch, and more.
The wives were sharing these videos to humble brag about how much they trusted both their husbandsandtheir BFFs together. BUTTTT…many women saw the intimate interactions as red flags:
Some felt the videos made it obvious that the husbands and best friends actually had more than just platonic feelings:
For the record, we don’t have any proof these husbands and BFFs cheat with each other, but thousands of women on TikTok seem to think the videos are all the proof needed:
The skepticism mainly came from women who had experienced this type of cheating firsthand:
As the wife:
As the BFF:
Or as the external party:
Even women who were in long-term, happy marriages agreed that the level of ~comfortability~ between the husbands and best friends in most of the videos was concerning:
Many women who were the “best friend” backed the married women saying the videos were inappropriate:
Overall, hundreds of thousands of women agreed it is nice to have a relationship/get along with their bestie’s partners, but there is a certain line that shouldn’t be crossed:
And it is pretty wild to see that over 80,000 women actually don’t care about and/or dislike their best friend’s husband:
Finally, nearly 20,000 people see their friend’s husbands as mere creatures who are just there haha:
