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Hi there! My name’s Hannah, and I’ve previously done advice columns on the site. Folks have written to me about variousrelationshipsituations, as well as more personalsex questions.

Now, I’m definitely no expert on anything. Let’s get that out of the way right now! “I’m just a girl in the world,” etc. etc. But I am the person my friends go to when they need advice or a little cheering up. Whether it’s about dating/relationships, situations with other friends, conflicts, or personal questions.

So, why am I the advice friend, and why should you trust me with your questions? Well, I really enjoy listening to people and helping them feel their most confident. I love to make people laugh, and I think we should all be empowering each other to live happy, healthy lives. I’m not here to cast any judgment either.

And while I may be “just a girl in the world,” I live and date inNew YorkCity, and have lived and dated in a lot of markets. I’ve made a lot of mistakes! I’ve been on dating apps off and on since, oh god, 2017. I’ve had toxic relationships, and I’ve had incredible and healthy relationships. Between my love life and my friends' relationships, I have seen A LOT. Nothing you can say or ask will shock me.

ALL OF THAT TO SAY: Do you have any pressing dating or relationship questions you want to discuss? Maybe you need some advice navigating dating app culture in this sort of post-pandemic world. Perhaps you’re struggling through a situationship and don’t know what to do. Maybe you have a secret crush on one of your close friends and aren’t sure if you should tell them. Any and all relationship-related queries are welcome!

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