Dax telephone OCD " A-one beneficial , " which , in my experience , it ai n’t .
It all started when Dax, who haspreviouslysaid that he has OCD and struggled with it as a child, recently hadCamila Cabelloon hisArmchair Expertpodcast. Camila has long been candid about having OCD, saying in 2020 that shehadbeen “experiencing what felt like constant, unwavering, relentless anxiety that made day-to-day life painfully hard.”
“Part of me is like, stop trying to euphemize everything,” Dax continued. “It is weird to call OCD a disorder because it’s a personality type and it’s super beneficial.”
Let’s get real here: I came across this clip because I have OCD. It waspostedby Alegra Kastens, a licensed therapist and the founder of the Center for OCD, Anxiety, and Eating Disorders. “Dax Shepardgrossly misrepresented OCD in his interview with Camila Cabello in front of millions of listeners,” she began.
“OCD is not a personality type. It is a mental health condition. People tend to misrepresent OCD and say things like, ‘Oh, we’re all a little bit OCD’ because they think that OCD is an adjective to describe being organized, often confusing OCD with obsessive-compulsive personality disorder,” she continued.
As for what OCDis,she succinctly explained, “OCD involves obsessions. So repetitive, unwanted, intrusive thoughts and images that are distressing to the person. Things like, ‘What if I’m attracted to animals? What if I’m a pedophile? I could snap and hurt someone right now.’ Compulsions [are] excessive and time-consuming mental or physical acts performed to alleviate anxiety, get rid of the thoughts, or prevent something bad from happening.”
She called OCD “ego-dystonic,” which means it is fundamentally at odds with the person experiencing the disorder: “The obsessions and compulsions are opposite to a person’s values and self-concept. They are distressing to the person. Imagine having the scariest thing that you could ever think of replaying in your head all day long. How beneficial is that to someone?”
Alegra further cite a 2017 Swedishstudythat suggest those with OCD are 10 times more potential to pour down themselves than masses without OCD .
In a follow-up call with BuzzFeed, Alegra told me, “Leaving his diagnosis aside, because I don’t know what it is that he struggles with, a lot of people confuse OCD with OCPD [Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder]. And I think that that is what was happening on the podcast. I can’t be certain because I’m not in his head.”
“OCPD can also be very distressing for a person or the people around the person. I think even characterizing OCPD as something that’s super beneficial would be inaccurate,” she continued. “People with OCPD, who might be preoccupied with orderliness, perfectionism, and control, tend to align with that.”
As theInternational OCD Foundationputs it , OCPD is characterize by " Rigid adhesiveness to rules and regulations , an consuming need for order , unwillingness to give or give responsibilities to others , and a sense of righteousness about the style matter ' should be done . ' "
When asked why Dax’s words could be harmful, Alegra replied, “OCD is such a misunderstood condition, so much so that it often takes on average about 10 to 15 years for someone with OCD to get a diagnosis and treatments. And a lot of the misinformation stems from confusing OCD with OCPD.”
“It further exacerbates misinformation that keeps people suffering in silence because they can’t reconcile, ‘Wait, I’m having terrifying intrusive sexual thoughts about my dog’ with ‘this person is saying that OCD is a personality trait that’s beneficial,'” she said.
Indeed , OCD is likely to make the person fearthat their intrusive thoughts might be real — such as the aforementioned unwelcome intimate thoughts — meaning that they ’re less likely to play it up with another someone or call it out as OCD .
“In the episode, Camila says that she doesn’t consider it a disorder. I am totally fine with people using language that makes sense for them. But my problem is when language gets put on to other people when it’s inaccurate,” Alegra continued.
Personally, Dax’s words reminded me of a wonderful personal essay I read inthe Cutcalled “Could I Still Be Ambitious Without My OCD?” In it, the author poses a question I and many others have wondered:What if treating my mental illness makes me less successful?It’s a way of thinking that will ultimately cause the OCD to thrive in ways that will ultimately be detrimental.
For me , I endeavor to separate the harmful experience ( such as obsessions about losing my line of work ) from the positive ( I am also a passionate soul who cares a lot about my study ) . I can be in OCD recovery and still keep those positive things because I am successfuldespitemental illness , not because of it .
None of this even puzzle into how succeeder is defined in term of capitalism , and I would meanly indicate that riches , accolades , or extolment are of little worth if you ’re torture inside .
Listen, I was hesitant to cover this as I know that the clip of Dax didn’t get much attention beyond some online OCD circles. But, on the off chance that you’ve clicked on this and either learned something about OCD or felt affirmed, it will have been worth it.
